Watch doctors and patients talk about the importance of good communication.
Learn about finding the right doctor from a cancer patient.
How you relate with your doctor and nurse plays an important role in your experience with cancer. It may affect everything from your treatment choice to how you cope with emotional and physical challenges. Studies show that people with cancer who are fully informed about their disease and treatment tend to fare better and suffer fewer side effects than those who simply follow doctors’ orders. That’s a good reason to not feel shy about asking questions and voicing your concerns. And why it’s important to choose a doctor you feel comfortable talking to.
Speak up.
Tell your doctor about all that has occurred since your last meeting, including emotional concerns and side effects, even if they have passed. Tell your doctor everything, even little things you are not sure are worth mentioning.
Ask any question.
There is no such thing as a dumb question, and it’s OK to ask the same question more than once. If you don’t understand something, ask for an explanation. Ask your doctor who and when to call if you have concerns after office hours or before your next visit. Write down your questions and concerns before your appointment so you won’t forget anything. It may help if you write in a journal how you feel, both emotionally and physically.
Know where you stand.
You should understand your doctor’s assessment of your health. Is your cancer responding as expected? Do you need to adjust your treatment plan? Make sure you know what to do next. Must you go for more blood tests or fill a new prescription? Take notes and ask for written instructions. If your doctor refers you to another expert, such as a dietitian or a counselor, be sure to make the appointment.
Not sure what to ask your doctor or nurse?
Read and print a list of important issues you may want to discuss.
